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Thursday, 20 June 2013

Edinburgh and Camden Fringe press release and a survey for you to fill in!

 
Rosie Wilby: Is Monogamy Dead?
Baillie Room, Assembly Hall
1-25 Aug (not 12) at 17.15
(preview at Camden Fringe July 29 at Camden Head at 9.30pm)

Did you know that only a few dozen, out of the approximately 4000 mammal species on the planet, form anything like lifelong pair bonds? And that, according to recent statistics, as many as 60% of married men and 50% of women have had sex with someone other than their spouse whilst married?* But why haven’t we talked about this? Until now…

Prompted by a rash of monogamy-bashing by high profile authors and thinkers including Alain de Botton, the breakdown of several close friends’ long term partnerships and an unlikely conversation about open relationships in Northampton, comedian and disgruntled serial monogamist Rosie Wilby presents a loose sequel to her Fringe Report Award winning 2009/10 show The Science Of Sex (which she recently performed in New York) after making a pact with her best friend that they are going to become ‘sex sirens’ in their early 40s – whatever that means.

Rosie investigates age-old conflicts between freedom and commitment and between the pace of modern dating and the views of couples who have managed to stay together and goes in search of people who have chosen a polyamorous lifestyle with multiple partners. ‘There’s some great language here’ she laughs, ‘the term ‘polysaturated’ has been coined to describe reaching a threshold of as many partners as one can handle at a given time. Meanwhile a Male-Female couple seeking a mythical bisexual woman to complete their perfect fantasy triangle are known as ‘unicorn hunters’ in search of their ‘Poly Grail’.’

She also presents the results of her anonymous online survey on fidelity and her own Family Fortunes-esque quiz to ponder what actually counts as infidelity, whether any of us agree on this and what other secrets monogamous couples keep from one another and asks ‘now we have same sex marriage, where are the married dating sites for lesbians?’ Plus her disastrous attempt to find some sexual misadventure at a supposedly erotic ‘lesbian sauna’ (everyone ended up chatting and cleaning) and a dash of erotic cereal eating to test out abstinence advocate John Harvey Kellogg’s theory that a balanced diet including cornflakes would reduce sexual feelings.

Rosie says: ‘I’ve started wondering if in order to be happy, human beings need both the loving security and companionship of a partner and the passion offered up by a lover. These two distinct sets of needs are rarely met by the same person at the same time. If we could ever establish a society where having one of each was the norm, then maybe we could eradicate the need for affairs entirely.’

Funny Women Finalist 2006 Rosie has appeared on BBC Radio 4 Loose Ends, Midweek and Woman's Hour and at festivals including Glastonbury, Latitude and Green Man. Her writing has been published in The Sunday Times, The Guardian, The Independent, Time Out and more.

Get involved in the discussion! Fill in Rosie's survey here.

'Excellent and a bit posh' Time Out

‘…a whole host of laughs, mostly laugh out loud belly laughs. Rosie rocked it’ **** Geoff Evans, one4review

For further info please see www.rosiewilby.com and / or contact Liz Hyder on 07939 372 865, liz@lizhyder.co.uk or on Twitter @LondonBessie

*Barker, Meg – Rewriting The Rules, p99 (Routledge, 2013)

Science Of Sex at Larmer Tree Festival

The Science Of Sex will be on at Larmer Tree Festival on Friday 19th July at 2pm in The Playground area